Got overbearing Asian American parents? Confront them vicariously with ‘Tiger Style!’

Mike Lew’s comedy at TheatreWorks Silicon Valley is balm for any thwarted adult who’s ever fantasized, “I’m gonna yell at my mom like a white girl.” 

A therapist (Emily Kuroda, left) resists the ideas of Jennifer (Jenny Nguyen Nelson) in TheatreWorks Silicon Valley’s “Tiger Style!”

Photo: Reed Flores/TheatreWorks Silicon Valley

Imagine confronting your parents about everything they did to mess you up. Like a swamp geyser, you’d spew everything out, spasming with the adrenaline and catharsis of it all. Then your tag-team partner — your sibling — would take up the attack whenever you needed to catch your breath or leap atop a table to make your point.

That’s how Albert (Will Dao) and Jennifer (Jenny Nguyen Nelson) start out accosting their Chinese American parents in “Tiger Style!” The adult siblings might have all the outward markers of success — a slew of Harvard degrees, steady jobs, property ownership — but they still let failing-upward white people (all played by Jeremy Kahn) walk all over them in their professional and romantic lives. The fault surely lies with their parents (Emily Kuroda and Francis Jue), whose so-called tiger parenting deprived them of real childhoods, self-confidence and any emotional tools to deal with their unhappiness.

General Tso (Francis Jue, left) reacts to Albert’s (Will Dao) rebellious spirit in TheatreWorks Silicon Valley’s “Tiger Style!”

Photo: Kevin Berne/TheatreWorks Silicon Valley

Mike Lew’s comedy, whose TheatreWorks Silicon Valley production opened Tuesday, April 9, is balm for any thwarted adult who has ever fantasized, “I’m gonna yell at my mom like a white girl.” But the show is just as compassionate toward parents, inflating filial ingratitude into a bubble that Mom and Dad can pop with knightly righteousness. The physical transformation that Dao enacts in this moment — from raging whirlwind to shuffling, pouty puppy — is so complete you might think he’s sprouted a tail to trail between his legs.

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“Tiger Style!”: Written by Mike Lew. Directed by Jeffrey Lo. Through April 28. Two hours, 15 minutes. $27-$100, subject to change. Mountain View Center for the Performing Arts, 500 Castro St., Mountain View. 877-662-8978. www.theatreworks.org

As the siblings abandon their American lives for a fantastical “Asian freedom tour” to China, where they believe their dating profiles and career résumés will finally be appreciated, director Jeffrey Lo brings verve, tenderness and acuity to the script. In American locales, scenic designer Arnel Sancianco appends labels such as “recreation” and “work” above sets that slide on and off, as if different spheres of life were little department store displays one could purchase. The canny choice reflects how Jennifer and Albert compartmentalize their worlds into separate campaigns to be won — “I want to be the best at therapy! The absolute best!” Jennifer tells her new therapist (Kuroda) — while also amping up the cartoonish hyperreality of the writing. 

Melvin (Francis Jue, left) oversees Albert (Will Dao) as Russ (Jeremy Kahn) goofs off in TheatreWorks Silicon Valley’s “Tiger Style!”

Photo: Kevin Berne/TheatreWorks Silicon Valley

Yet “Tiger Style!” at times overstays its welcome, with scenes that try to coast on fumes long after stakes have sputtered out. And for all Lew’s comic piquancy, some of his lines have the wheezy feel of a sitcom from the laugh track era: “No, I definitely don’t think that’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard in my life.” 

Still, Lo’s doughty cast members can make gems of almost anything — the way Jue, as a busybody stranger, zeroes in on Dao’s Albert as if there’s a tractor beam in his nose; the way Kuroda, as a long-lost cousin, seems perpetually on the verge of smacking someone, hyperventilating or flitting away like a butterfly.

Albert (Will Dao, left) and Jennifer (Jenny Nguyen Nelson) are greeted by stranger Tzi Chuan (Francis Jue) in TheatreWorks Silicon Valley’s “Tiger Style!”

Photo: Reed Flores/TheatreWorks Silicon Valley

For all its jabs at both the siblings and the racist world around them, “Tiger Style!” also etches moments of transcendence. Turns out that decades of tiger parenting isn’t just good for one’s CV; it can lead to moments of stirring artistry entirely unrelated to getting ahead in life. 

As the play proposes in its final moments, years of nose-to-the-grindstone labor isn’t necessarily opposed to taking a stand one day. In fact, maybe all that time spent in quiet toil makes a rebellion all the more principled and meaningful.

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  • Lily Janiak
    Lily Janiak

    Lily Janiak joined the San Francisco Chronicle as theater critic in May 2016. Previously, her writing appeared in Theatre Bay Area, American Theatre, SF Weekly, the Village Voice and HowlRound. She holds a BA in theater studies from Yale and an MA in drama from San Francisco State.

    She can be reached at ljaniak@sfchronicle.com.