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10 Signs Your Partner Is the World's Best Spouse

Coffee and food are 100% involved.

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They never hurt, but love is so much more than red roses and romantic getaways. It's often the little things that count, like when your partner DIYs a special food you're craving or discreetly unclogs the toilet for you. (C'mon, you know that's the real stuff.) Here, 13 people dish on what long-term love really looks like. These stories are so cute it's actually pretty gross.

1

They aren't afraid to leave you mushy middle-school love notes.

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"I have a little red mailbox on my desk — it's the old-fashioned kind with a little flag. My husband leaves me love notes in the mailbox and then puts up the flag so I will know to check for my hand-written surprise." —Rebecca

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They think your mid-dream mumbles are hilarious.

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"In the morning, mine tells me all the weird stuff I said in my sleep. And he tells me this like it's the cutest thing he's ever heard." —Katie

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They make lemonade when life hands you lemons.

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"My husband and I used to be dirt poor. During this time we couldn't even really afford food, let alone unnecessary condiments like hot sauce — but I love spicy food. One day, he stole a bunch of peppers from a food stand and tried to make his own sauce. It didn't work out, but the sentiment was really sweet." —Katya

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They will gladly watch that awful TV show you're always going on about.

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"I'll come home from work and my partner insists we watch Gilmore Girls. Thing is, she's not really that into it, but it's my absolute favorite. Whenever she does this, I know she's doing it because I'm sad or stressed or sick and she wants to make it better. That's true love." —Alaina

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They know you're an absolute terror before your morning coffee, but they look the other way.

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"He knows I'm a shell of a person without coffee ... and when we run out of coffee, he'll order iced to be delivered — just after seeing my tired morning face." —Alyssa

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They somehow manage to make greasy fast-food a romantic statement.

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"When he pisses me off or we have a fight, he shows up with McDonald's or some other food." —Carrie

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They don't mess with your shoe collection.

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"I'm an avid shoe collector. My husband is always telling me to donate the ones I never wear, but when I did, I accidentally threw my wedding heels away. I was devastated. So, he comes home one day and he has a pair that looks just like the originals. They were a half size too small, but it was the kindest thing anyone's ever done for me. He still thinks I'm a complete lunatic, though." —Emily

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They support you when reality bites.

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"I have a chronic illness, and sometimes I forget that I have limitations. [My partner is] always there to remind me that I can ask for help instead of trying to do it all myself." —Lyndsey

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They know all about your icky bathroom habits, but think nothing of them.

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"About once a month I completely clog the toilet. He always fixes it without making me feel like a gross jerk." —Jen

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Despite all the silly jokes and bickering, at the end of the day, they make you feel safe.

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"I have pretty bad anxiety, so I worry myself over everything. But because I know he's there for me, I wake up every morning knowing that not only am I with somebody I love, but that I feel really safe with him — even if I'm pissed off at him." —Kayla

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